So it's almost been a full year since I've been a "real" social worker, I thought it would be fitting that I list out all my "firsts" of social working:
-helped a client move (complete with me carrying boxes and sweating and my van being dirrty afterwards)
-had a mom get her parental rights terminated (after I had been reporting about how much progress she had making)
-been supoenaed (and then spent 3 hours waiting only to be finally told I would not be needed)
-grilled by another worker and foster mother about my "qualifications" (I'm sorry if I'm in my late 20's and don't have a century of experiences)
-had a mom reunified with her child (after many of us had voice our concerns and reported her lack of cooperation and progress)
-finally handed my reports on time (that one time)
-had to transport a sick kid in my own kid's car seat and had that sick kid lick my kid's car toys (and I had to smile and carry on while mentally making a note to disinfect, disinfect!)
-scream at a kid to stop when he was about to run across a busy street while his mother looked on in a depressed, distant state
-tell (and show) a mom to hold her children's hands when in a busy public space
-had a mom said to me: "I was thinking about what you said last week..."
-had my husband tell me to stop talking "ghetto" to him after a long week at work
-had to do client education sessions in my car
-cried in my car and reconsider this field
-been so motivated that I seeked out social work graduate school
What a roller coaster. Can't wait to see what this second year will bring for this rookie ;)
Until our next visit,
New BSW
Yikes, I don't envy you!
ReplyDeleteTough population and some of the things you have done would be a total dealbreaker for me.
Hang in there!!
Not sure if this inspires me or derails me. :P glad for the honesty though.
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